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Experts say that the so-called “bad manners” may hide problems associated with the development of the baby. Therefore, parents should not only feed / drink / dress / raise a child, but also carefully monitor his behavior in order to identify and prevent the possible occurrence of such problems in time. Well, about what you need to pay attention to first of all, we’ll talk today.

How to distinguish development problems from poor parenting

Each parent is familiar with a situation where a child begins to behave badly and is constantly acting up. In principle, this is a completely normal phenomenon, since the baby is still in the process of socialization and is learning how to act in a particular situation. But not only if the vagaries of the child become systematic.

Experts say that the so-called “bad manners” may hide problems associated with the development of the baby. Therefore, parents should not only feed / drink / dress / raise a child, but also carefully monitor his behavior in order to identify and prevent the possible occurrence of such problems in time. Well, about what you need to pay attention to first of all, we’ll talk today.

EDUCATIONAL EXPERIMENT
In order to quickly determine whether a child needs consultations with a neurologist, psychologist, etc., or if it is necessary to reconsider the methods of education, it is enough for parents to conduct a simple educational experiment. It is only necessary for a few days to turn into ideal parents who are distinguished by attention, utmost calm and restraint. In other words, you need to try:

keep calm in any situation – do not scold the child, do not yell at him, do not show your displeasure (even if the kid drew a picture on new wallpaper with your beloved and very expensive lipstick);
surround the child with attention as much as possible – read fairy tales to him, take an active part in sports games, learn new poems, draw, sculpt, sing, dance with him, etc. (even if you insanely want to include a cartoon for him, and you yourself can “sit” on the Internet yourself);
constantly demonstrate their love to the baby – hug, kiss, praise, support all endeavors, talk about their love for him, etc. (even if you are very tired and want to relax in silence);
to create an atmosphere of a happy family – not to sort things out with the spouse and other relatives with the child, not to undermine the authority of the other parent (for example, if dad decided to go for a walk with the baby, mom should not cancel this decision, putting forward as an argument the statement that dad is not understands when you can walk).

If the child’s whims are the result of using inappropriate methods of upbringing, then during the educational experiment the baby’s behavior will necessarily change for the better. Of course, in a few days, the whim of yesterday will not turn into an angel. However, he will begin to obey, without scandals, to fulfill the requests of his parents, laugh more often and cry less. And parents need to make a definite conclusion: so that the child always behaves well, you need to change your attitude towards him – to be friendly, attentive, responsive, etc.

If during the educational experiment the child’s behavior has not changed at all, then most likely the parents will need the help of specialists. To make it easier for a specialist to identify a problem, you need to observe the child and determine what provokes his tantrums, moods, or isolation. Keeping a diary will help parents systematize their observations.

CHILD BEHAVIOR DIARY
When filling out a diary of a child’s behavior, you need to pay special attention and fix

date and time – perhaps your child is keenly reacting to bad weather, bright light or unpleasant sounds, and bad behavior can also be a result of his tiredness and drowsiness;
thirst and hunger – perhaps the child is capricious because he needs enhanced nutrition (that is, he constantly feels a feeling of hunger / thirst and, through whims, tries to tell his parents about it);
temperature mode – perhaps you have an excessively heat-loving or “frost-resistant” baby who is uncomfortable at temperatures comfortable for parents;
reactions to praise and censure – perhaps your baby reacts in a peculiar way to praise / censure (laughs when he is scolded and cries if he is praised);
behavior with the audience – perhaps your child is a born manipulator who behaves completely differently in front of the audience and when he thinks that no one sees him.
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